About this Blog

There is so much I would like to share about my life. It is not easy. I wanted to separate these categories though. Maybe one person wants to know about Jesus in my life but another person doesn't. One person may not want to read all about fibromyalgia. My goal is to bring awareness. All these categories are part of my life. There is not one part of life, there are many aspects. Life is complicated and messy. Of course these categories are going to overlap. However, I want to be as respectful as possible to others beliefs. I believe in Jesus, but I don't want someone to not want to read my blog because they disagree with me. I want to be as inclusive as possible, because I want my blog to help others. I want others to think my blog is worth it to read.

Since I currently have a full time job, I post on the weekends. I will post at least once a week. Thank you for all your support!

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